Wes is home and doing well!Typing this post in what should be just hours from Wes palate surgery. Yeah the surgery that was originally scheduled for Oct. 06, when he was 8 months old. Instead the surgeons feel it is best that Wes have a month to recover. No new date yet.

No way to update lately. Wes has been in the hospital since Sunday, being treated for meningitis. Called Dr. Curry after his fever spiked at 105.5 with alternating doses of Tylenol and Motrin. Motrin worked the best, but still got break through before the next dose. He came to the hospital in pretty bad shape, but is doing well now. Little glimpse in to the past week, two iv's, vomiting, extreme fevers, rash, blood work, and a spinal tap. He has responded well to the abs, but will need a full 10 days of iv abs. Wed morning I noticed a rash that quickly spread over his entire body. Apparently this is an allergic reaction to the abs. Doctor requested dermatologist evaluation to verify it was an allergic reaction. Allergic reaction to rocephin presents problems for future treatment for Wes, knocks out 70% of abs used for him.
Poor little guy can not catch a break. Wed afternoon he started sitting up a little. Before he wanted to lay flat and cried and fussed with the head of the bed being tilted the least bit.
Prior to this past weekend he had been on 10 days ab at home and beginning an additional days. Apparently the ear, throat, or sinuses resulted in meningitis.

Today Wes has been walking around the hospital using a little elmo backpack as his hat and enjoying some visitors.
This is my first opportunity to update...no wireless at Gulf Coast.

These are the moments, I wrap my heart around!

Our little tiger is 2 years old!!!! Wes had a wonderful birthday party. He loved the Thomas candle so much, he tired to grab Thomas and the flame. Everyone gasped and Wes pouted out his bottom lip and hugged onto his dad crying. The burning candle did not scare him, it was all the people standing over him, staring, and singing.

The train and table set was a huge hit. Chase stayed up late into the night putting the track together for his little brother. Brandon tried to help, but after a few screws, he fell asleep in the recliner. (He will someday make a good supervisor!) I am in awe watching my boys and how much they love one another.

For now it is our coffee table. As far as I am concerned, it can stay in the living room, so I can watch my boy play. He spends most of the day there.

This is coming a bit late...Wes was discharged Thursday afternoon. He was so excited to be home and see his big brothers, who gave him a loving welcome home. (the kind that just melts my heart)
Overall Wes has been doing well. Saturday we went back to Tallahassee to visit Papa and do some big birthday shopping. Shhhhhhhhhhh, Wes is getting a train and table set!
Saturday afternoon he spiked a fever, but seemed fine the next day...Sunday night brought another fever, Tuesday, and then again today. Highest fever was Saturday, 103.7. Rest have been 100-101.5. Fevers typically break with Tylenol and he seems fine. Yesterday Dr. Curry ordered another chest x-ray. His pneumonia has not cleared, but this can take sometime. NO, palate surgery until he has a clear chest x ray, which will likely take a month or so. Today his chest sounded pretty good. Dr. Curry feels it is possibly the flu, since he sat in the ER for nearly 12 hours. He has been on a preventive dose of Tamiflu and yesterday started a treatment dose.
Hope to have him on the mend by Sunday so he can enjoy his big Elmo birthday celebration! My baby boy is just days away from his 2nd birthday. Pictures soon of big boy Wes!

Much happier with Elmo online, INSIDE!

We are back in Florida...would love to say home, but we needed to make a pit stop in Tallahassee. Wes' fever spiked 104.3 the night he was discharged from Children's in Chicago. We gave him tylenol and worked it down. That morning when we woke up to fly out, his fever was down and he seemed to be feeling better as he ran and jumped at the terminal in Chicago...not the case as we landed in Atlanta. I made a call to Dr. Curry, She felt he needed to make a stop at the ER in Tallahassee. She was concerned his fever would spike again or develop breathing issues once we arrived home. The ER doc was reluctant to admit him, but after he talked with Dr. Curry and MAAAAAAAAAAAAANY hours of waiting in the ER he got a room at 2am.
This morning was looking promising for discharge tomorrow. They want him fever free for 24 hours and he had not had a fever since last night, 102. After the docs left he vomited twice and fever spiked, 103.3, so it will be a wait and see how he does with the iv ab's today and overnight. His new chest x-ray last night did not really show much change.
As for now, he has had some tylenol and watching ELMO, of course!

Where my boys love to spend their winter weekends. All the essentials family, friends, four wheelers... Check out the tree house Joey built for all Frink kiddos!

Well did you really expect Wes to be simple, plain, or typical?
Wes had his MRI and CT scan yesterday. Due to his breathing issues, he has to have general anesthesia rather than sedation. We were told he would be out in about 1 to 1 1/2 hours. After 2 1/2 hours of hearing a woman hack at the end of the waiting room, I began to get a bit concerned and took a walk down the hall just in time to see Wes going into the CT room. A few minutes later, we watched Wes’ nurse run down the hall with oxygen and then some type of breathing apparatus.
Later when we were called back, Wes seemed to be coming out of anesthesia fine. He did spit up during extubation and required suction and oxygen, but by then he was breathing fine on his own and waking up. He was released about 30 minutes later. Then about a 1 hour later, he had a 105 temp under his arm. Tylenol and back to the ER…a chest X-ray and he was admitted with pneumonia.
Today he does seem to be feeling somewhat better. Last night he just laid there, putting up no fight with the nurses and doctors. Today still lying around but fever down and did give us a little smile. He is just waking up for a TEMP check, after a 4 hour nap.
Positive news came from Dr Bowman, Wes’ bone graft is fitting in nicely to his skull base. In addition to monitoring his surgical repair/bone graft, he will need MRIs to monitor a Rathke’s cleft cyst near his pituitary gland. This also requires regular monitoring by an endocrinologist and ophthalmologist.
We also discussed his palate surgery. The surgeries that are most concerning are the future surgeries dealing with his midface. I honestly feel very torn with the decision of his palate surgery, considering his future surgeries dealing with his midface will need to be here were his anatomy his well known.
At this point regardless, we need to talk with doctors on how soon we can proceed with his palate after his recovery. He is a very popular little guy here! My heart is warmed by everyone’s support and involvement in Wes’ care and most importantly can find comfort that he is in wonderful hands here in the cold windy city.

We have arrived in Chicago! Lots of snow on the ground. I would love to post a picture of Wes in the snow, but he is just not into the snow. Today he is running a fever and not feeling well, hoping all goes well and he is able to have his scans tomorrow.
He has been able to watch Elmo on the the computer and loves it! This Florida family is staying warm inside!

Next week we head back to Chicago for follow up scans. These scans will be the final step for Dr. Bowman to clear Wes for his palate surgery. Hard to believe this surgery was scheduled in Oct 06, he was 8 months old. Finally the month he turns 2 years old, he can have his palate closed.
Past three weeks, Wes has been struggling to breathe again. Nights are again filled with alarms from pulse ox and apnea monitor. His breathing improved with the g-tube feeds. He was able to take some oral feeds in addition to g-tube feeds without any problems. Not the case now. Dr. Curry is concerned the oral feeds are causing the problems. Still having some issues, but one week without any oral feeds, his breathing has improved. For now Wes is being totally g-tube feed. Breaks my heart when he asks for fruit snacks, pop tarts, cheetos, basically anything.
Hate the thought of my baby enduring another surgery and recovery, but I know this step will give him so much with eating and speech. Wes’ g-tube will make his recovery less complicate. The extreme pain from this surgery often cause feeding difficulties. Wes will have his g-tube. Memories of fighting syringes of milk during the last weeks of his latham and recovery of his lip surgery, will not be the case with his g-tube. The challenge with this surgery will be what will come with his breathing difficulties after having this hole closed.
After his palate heals, he his going to have a huge Cheeto party with an Elmo cake to celebrate his second birthday. Forget the little ball pit, Wes needs a huge Cheeto pit!

This video is for a specific email and not intended for everyone.

Yes, this is a very late post. Don't hold it against me, I got home and did not spend much time on the computer. I have spent my time enjoying my family and friends. (and in somewhat of a crash and burn)

We have a new puppy, Izzy. Wes loves Izzy, wants her to sit in his lap and love on him, but when the he has had enough he bites back. Yes, bites back!

Still a huge fan of Elmo. Loved being Elmo for Halloween and did not want to take off his fury little friend. He was not a big fan of Santa Claus. He loved all the gifts, especially his older brother's toys. Yes, the ones he is not suppose to mess with.
Wes is doing well. He still has a stubborn case of c-diff, which I hope is cleared with the dose of flagyl he just finished a few days ago. Dr. Curry will order another culture this month. Such a pleasure getting those cultures and then carrying it around. Unfortunately he required another dose of antibiotics a couple of weeks ago for a sinus infection, which has not cleared, heading back to Dr. Curry tomorrow. He will also be having blood work for a follow-up with endocrinologist later this month. Everything he has been through, those blood draw visit are very stressful on him. Thank God for Dr. Curry. She is a one time, quick stick, which is not the case everywhere for Wes. All of his 6 month follow-ups fall in Jan. The month is full of appointments, ophthalmologist, endocrinologist, general surgeon, and neurologist for an EEG. Of course hoping this visit with the ophthalmologist will bring more answers about his vision, but I know this is not realistic at this point. Ophthalmologist is planning on dilating his eyes and evaluating him further for glasses. No that this is not a fix or cure for his nystagmus. He does now have a vision teacher who visits from FIRE, this is his only therapy now. He was seeing a developmental nurse, who quit, occupational therapist seems to avoid me, physical therapist never followed up and speech will most likely be after his palate repair. Honestly he has been tossed around and tucked away with regards to these state services.

Wonderful news since g-tube, Wes is actually on the growth chart for the first time in his life. He is in the 7% for weight. He has adjusted well to the g-tube feedings. He does have some issue granulated tissue and was making trips to a general surgeon in Panama City every other week. Dr. Curry has now taken over those visits and cauterizes the tissue with silver nitrate every other week with the hope to get it under control and stop growing.
Will try to update later this month with good news from all of his follow-ups.

Dare I post this update...Yes, we are still here in Chicago, but scheduled to fly HOME tomorrow morning at 9:50. It could be a messy flight! Hope the seat beside us is open.

This has been a challenge for our entire family. My heart broke when I called to tell Chase and Brandon that we would need to stay for two more days. Explaining issues difficult even for most adults to wrap their minds around over a phone call filled with my babies tearful pleas was heart wrenching.
Wes just was not doing well enough to safely travel home Tuesday. He has gone 3, 4 and then really stretched it out to 5 entire feeds before vomiting. We have been told that vomiting may just be Wes normal. Wow, what kind of normal is this?

Today seems to be better. He has not stopped vomiting, but has stretched out for 5 feeds, which totals 17 1/2 oz, before losing about 4 or 5 of those. The hope is that Wes will go straight home and stay there, but Dr. Curry has agreed to have him admitted in Panama City, if it is necessary.
Right now he is peeping out the door..tomorrow he will step out that door on his way back home.

Just to let you know the hospital is not as fun as Wes makes it look in all the pictures. Everyone here has worked hard to make sure Wes can explore, grow, and have some fun. It is also in his nature to make the best out of any situation. Not going to let much hold him down for long.

Wes has learned some new words. Love to listen to that sweet little voice even when he is telling me no and move. His little way of telling the nurses, doctors, momma, and daddy what he wants. He is has also learned to say Elmo and pee pee. Past two days have been filled with Elmo music dvd. He wakes up, pointing to the tv saying "melmo". Does his little bounce dance in the bed.

Life can be so unpredictable...we move one step forward, yes only to take two back. Wes breathing has improved considerably with no desats. Today things seemed to be looking up! Wes will be discharged tomorrow and after a few frustrating calls and $475 fees per flight to get home, I finally found a friendly woman with Delta who was wiling to really listen to our situation. She waived the fee with contact of a medical case manager here.

The steps back, Wes is still vomiting and now having considerably less urine output. Only two wet diapers all day and Wes has gone through every little pink gown on the 6th floor. I worry leaving the hospital with him vomiting the way he has been. The doctors have all assured us that this too will pass with time and patience. Initially we were told this would be a simple surgery and Wes would bounce back quickly, which makes me question why this is not happening. There is no true explanation, which of course I hate. I need answers and resolutions, when it involves my baby. What can I do for him...hate to see him suffer through, yet another difficult time.

Spreading some of that universal charm...a smile and personality that grabs your heart!

Wes is doing well. The thought of this hole in my baby's little belly just seemed overwhelming, but like most things I have learned as a mommy, I can do it. He of course surprises me with how well he handles everything. He was back and forth with smiling and fussing today, but overall doing well.
Woke up at 6am for my first lesson. The nurse connected his mic-key button to an extension tube and started pedialyte feeding. This was after a LONGGGGGG night with a screaming baby next door. The extension has to be snapped in and then turned to lock. The pushing to get it snapped in was a little too much for me to try this morning. He is still pretty sore.
He was started on slow continuous feeds of pediasure this afternoon. Nurse came in a little while ago to give me a lesson on giving meds. I flushed the line, baby steps. LOL. Has two ports, one for feeds and one for meds. Positive point is there is no more fighting him with meds.
The pediatrician, Dr. Heckle, bought baby Einstein and Thomas videos for Wes. We have been searching the hospital for dvds for the bed side tv, to no avail. Today she walked in with brand new dvds and praises of Dr. Curry.
Bad news is that we will spend the weekend here. She talked with Dr. Curry and she wants Wes to be set before they send him home. She is concerned, because of our location and the resources in our area for little guys. Of course we want what is best for Wes and now looking forward to returning home first part of the week. Possibly Sunday, but most likely will be Monday. Can not wait to get my arms around my little fellows. Love you so much Chase and Brandon!

Wes has his button...
much relieved that he got the button right away. Often doctors use a different type of tube for the first 6-8 weeks, which is what we were told to be prepared for. He is out of surgery, sleeping now. Just been laying here with mommy and daddy, watching a little baby einstein and resting.
My heart was warmed and spirits lifted yesterday by some thoughtful posts, emails, phone calls, some wonderful visitors, lots of love from home, and my hubby walking into the door. Everyone's support has meant so much.
These hospital days have slowly broken me down. In a way, I felt as though I had failed Wes. Here he is a 18 months old, so much he has dealt with and now a g-tube. Worked so hard against this feeding tube, since the day he was born.
Honestly seeing him after surgery was such a release. Yes, always makes me weak in the knees to see the pain and fear in my baby's eyes, but it is over, the fight, the struggle, the surgery, and now seeing the light at the end of this hospital stay in just a few days. Still going to love on that little belly, just going to give him a few days to recuperate.

Life is a journey to be taken day by day...

Wes is also doing well on the 6th floor here. Of course you know how quickly he steals your heart.

Such a little flirt!

Day one on the 6th floor has been a difficult one for me. Being on the 3rd floor for two weeks in August and two weeks now, we knew everyone. Had a little hospital support system there. Something to be said for familiar faces. Now we are on the 6th floor, next to a baby who is apparently alone and not happy all through the night and all morning. I honestly feel I have reached my breaking point. It is so much more than the move, days isolated so far from home, awaiting another surgery for my little man. Woke up this morning, ready to leave. Wes finished his last dose of antibiotic last night and had a culture and some other blood work early this morning. Hate the idea of a g-tube. Love that sweet little belly, lots of kisses and tickles there. His surgery is scheduled for tomorrow, not sure a time. Tearing up as I type those words...I am just so emotionally exhausted.

We have made some new friends here in Chicago. Wes loves music therapy.

Ok, I think I am a pretty reserved person and often hold back when I feel like exploding. Today was one of those days, I held back just how angry I am that Wes had to be moved to the 6th floor. Emotional day for me, there is a lot to be said for familiar faces.
Being away from family and friends has to be the most difficult aspect of having Wes' care so far from home. It meant so much to look up and see my cousin, Chuck, standing in the door. Wonderful timing! All the places he could have been sent for work and he was sent to Chicago.

Joey is flying back tomorrow in time to be here for Wes surgery Wed, which will be great for Wes and I. Desperately hoping to return home Friday night. In time to see my boys play soccer Saturday! I am so looking forward to getting back home, to all of the things we often take for granted...

The view from Wes room is a breath taking look at the roof. Tuesday will be two weeks in Chicago and all I can tell you about is the green, blue, yellow, and purple color scheme of this hospital room, how a shower can somehow bring back a little of your human side, and almost every moment of 5 Baby Einstein videos. He loves those videos, grabs his attention. Must be a comedy, because he throws his little hand up laughing at the puppet lion.

Today as I was taking a shower Larissa, a student nurse watched Baby Einstein with him. When his nurse walked in, Larissa was talking to Wes in Russian. The video starts out in Russian, which made her think we spoke Russian, so she was trying to comfort him in Russian. Wes has been fortunate to have such wonderful people caring for him. Take care of your nurses, they truly are an integral part of your care in the hospital.

His g-tube surgery is scheduled for Wed, Oct 10, which I have woke up each morning dreading, questioning, and ready to run from. Antibiotics end on Tues, which leaves no time for anything else to arise.

There truly is a breaking point in a hospital and I have reached mine a few times now, which has opened my eyes to the value of a hospital Social worker and the volunteers. Wes is still in isolation and no hope of getting out. Our social worker, Audrey, has stopped by everyday to visit and check in on us, even called Saturday. She has been a great resource and a wonderful person to talk with.

Wes is really doing well, back to the little happy fellow and yes putting big smiles on his nurses faces. Such a little flirt! Stuck in a hospital room, yet not much slows him down, always smiling and ready to play. Just loving life...

Here are some photos to melt your heart.

Yes, my little man misses his big brothers!

Turns out that Wes has salmonella infection. This morning Dr. Heckle, peditricain, said that many people carry this bacteria in their intestines. Both the C-diff and salmonella bacteria have overtaken Wes' intestinal system after strong antibiotics have mess up the bacterial balance in his intestines. The salmonella bacteria has entered Wes blood, oddly enough though his stool cultures have been negative with any type of bacteria. Because Wes has had a recent surgery and more to come, he needs antiboitic treatment to fight this bacteria.
Today he is again isolated in this hospital room, but enjoying some Baby Einstein movies. The peditrician is switching him to bolus feeds, big feeds a few times a day, instead of continous, which requires him to be constantly connected to a feeding pump. After one week in his hospital bed with this nasty infection wearing him down and causing vomitting and diarrhea (over a month) he has gotten pretty weak. Yesterday he was not able to walk, very unsteady and wabbly. Today once they start bolus feeds he will be able explore this "big" hospital room and just get out of bed.

Wes is still here in the hospital. Again I feel complete confidence in Wes care here at Children's Memorial. He a spinal meylogram Wed showed the success of his neurosurgery last month. NO leak!!!! Even with this information, Dr. Bowman has stayed very involved in Wes' care.
Unfortunately due to his prior C-diff infection, g-tube surgery was postponed until Friday. Wednesday and Thursday brought high fevers, which resulted in his surgery again being postponed. Yesterday his pediatrician here, Dr. Shah, told us that Wes has a very serious blood infection. At this point no specific name, only referred to as a gram negative bacteria. Initially Dr. Shah and Dr. Bowman felt there could have been contamination, b/c this is so serious and unusual. Yesterday afternoon was very scary as Wes began vomiting that was alarming to his nurse and doctors.
Today Wes has shown some signs of improvement, lower fevers and no vomiting. His second culture results today did confirm a gram negative bacteria. This morning because of the vomiting and gagging, Wes pulled his feeding tube up some. X-rays showed that it is still in his stomach, which is to his benefit. He has been taking very little by mouth for many days now. At this point we do not know when his g-tube surgery will be schedule. With this infection he will need at least 10 days of IV antibiotic treatment. Today Dr. Bowman told us how important it is for Wes to be here with this infection.
Due to me making reservations with the wrong Ronald McDonald House, Joey is homeless and floating between waiting room cots and the chair bed in Wes room, when his nurse allows two parents to stay in his room. At least we have been fortunate enough to be isolated in a private "suite". Wes' first few days, his nurses and doctors come in with the full yellow suits, which oddly enough Wes seemed to think was funny.
There is a point in the hospital when you really begin to break down with each issue weighing down heavier. Beginning so far away from our boys, family, and friends also adds to this difficult journey.
I know Wes webpage reaches many wonderful people. I would like to request that you all pray for Mr. Charles Creamer, and his family. His daughter Marie Lee is close friend of mine and their family is faced with some very difficult decisions after a very lengthy battle in the hospital with several lung infections.

Love to everyone!

Wes is such a busy little guy. He is all boy! After his surgery and returning home, he is back to full speed. He has dealt with some issues, but has not slowed down. His sleep apnea has come back full strength. Dr. Curry feels the best option at this point for Wes is a g-tube, which will help with food irritating his airway and help Wes gain some much needed weight before his palate surgery. (Here is link with pictures and explanation of g -tubes http://www.rileypediatricsurgery.com/Gastrostomy.htm)
He is scheduled for g-tube for Wed Sept 26th in Chicago. Yes, back to Chicago! Dr. Bowman wants Wes back for scans and where all doctors involved are aware of his neurosurgery and airway issues. His surgery site is actually visible through his palate.
The antibiotics he had post op in the hospital caused an intestinal infection, C-Diff. This has caused horrible diaper rash and put us on alert for side affects. It can also cause this surgery to be postponed. Dr. Bowman has arranged for Wes to have surgery with the head of the pediatric surgery department, Dr. Reynolds. She does require that Wes have a clear culture before proceeding with surgery. Last week this infection appeared to be resolving with Flagyl, but today this does not seem to be the case. Friday the local hospital sent out a culture that will not be back until Monday. Joey and I are suppose to fly out Tuesday. Wes will be in the hospital for a few days following surgery and in Chicago one week post op to learn how to care for and change the g-tube.

We are home! Wes was cleared to travel home Tuesday.
Wes had a myeologram last Tuesday, dye injected into spinal fluid, he is tipped upside down, and then a series of scans to look for a leak. There was one questionable area according to the radiologist. With this scan and the fact that Wes’ nose is dripping clear fluid and his eye is watery, Dr. Bowman feels his palate repair needs to wait until another myelogram study. This will clear him of any possibility of a leak. He should have another in 6 to 8 weeks from now. He will also have a MRI of his head and spine. All of scans have been focused in the front of his head, while there are some additional issues at the base of his head. For now we continue to watch him closely for any fevers, which he has been, fever free since we left the hospital.
He is recovering well! I don’t know who was more excited to be home! Amazing how much your kids grow when you are away.